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Nightmare Before Christmas, The (1993)
IMDB rating: 8.00
Plot: Bored and unhappy with the life of being “The Pumpkin King” Jack Skellington of Halloween Town, Jack sets out to find something exciting. Jack discovers “Christmas Town” and takes it upon himself to take over the duties of Santa to deliver toys across the world to children.
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Directors: Selick Henry
Actors: Elfman Danny,Sarandon Chris,Hickey William,Shadix Glenn,Reubens Paul,Page Ken,Ivory Ed,Proops Greg,Katz Kerry,Crenshaw Randy,Ball Sherwood,Animation,Family,Fantasy,Musical,
my boyfriends ex girlfriend is pregnant, and claiming its his, what do i do?
im 19 years old, almost 20 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 8 months, but we’ve been friends for the past almost 5 years, he is in the army and was supposed to leave for AIT in january, but things have been pushed back until yesterday when he was supposed to leave, & are now pushed back again for another 2 weeks.. about 4 months into our relationship, he gets a phone call from his ex saying that she just found out she was 51/2 months pregnant and she claimed it was his, however there are rumors saying that the father is also from around her area ( 2 hours away) .. the timing sounded right and everything. she told him he wasnt allowed to ever see his baby and she wanted him to have nothing to do with the baby, ever. so why even bother telling him? so life went on.. we didnt hear from her until right before christmas eve, when she called again and said it was a boy. every man’s dream is to have a baby boy, right? well he was devestated.. of course he wants to name his first son after himself, but only with the woman he is with. again she tells him he will never see his son and will not have anything to do with him. my boyfriend is very family oriented and now he doesnt know what to think. he gave her is adress and email adress to send pictures and everything, and she didnt do jack crap.. so again we dont hear from her for another month or so. since he was supposed to leave in january she texts him yelling at him because he wont be around for the birth of his son in february, when really he has no control over the army and when they send him away for training. (his ex girlfriends father is also a sgt, in the army) well things got pushed back for his ship date and he was supposed to leave the first of february, (remember we still havent heard from her since christmas eve) well low and behold.. the day he leaves she calls him and says she is in labor!!!!! but yet she still wants him to have nothing to do with the baby, so why even tell him?! well now things are pushed back for his ship date yet again, and he doesnt leave for another 2 weeks…. well granite she called him on the morning of feb. first, and we still have yet to hear if the baby was born. labor for over 24 hours? really.. come on now..
my question is.. how soon can we do a paternity test to see if he is indeed the father? i know we had to wait until the baby was born.. but he wants and needs to find out for himself asap, so this nightmare of endless mind playing tricks can be over. if it is indeed his son, he will step up and fight for custody and make things work.. or at least joint custody because he will not just walk away from his child, whether she likes it or not. but he/we need to know if this baby is his. ANY ADVICE WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED! 
also, she didnt know she was pregnant until she tried to get back into the army and went for a physical, she was already about 5- 51/2 months pregnant than.. and i try so hard not to be jealous of her.. but i would do anything to have a baby right now, my boyfriend wants one, but not right now, yet he still says if it happens it would be a blessing. so its not like he is against it either.. i know im young, but i absolutely adore kids, and i know i can do it.
Oh no she didn’t!
irishguy1 | Feb 03, 2010
they sell them now at like cvs and places like that but i think you got to wait until the baby.. but make sure that hoe knows that that birth certificate is not being signed by your man and that she willl be tested
Angelique | Feb 03, 2010
Sounds like he has gotten himself in a whole heap of trouble. I say that because this girl that is playing games is obviously nuts and shes not going to stop. I feel for you and him. First I think you and your boyfriend are going about this the right way by seeking a paternity test. But I don’t think you can get results until after the baby is born. Ummm…. your boyfriend is going to go through a lot with this girl and bless your heart if you are willing to stick it out with him.
butta love | Feb 03, 2010
well he has rights she has said he is the father and i would save the texts if there is anymore he can get a court order now if the baby is born good luck
Tina | Feb 03, 2010
my brother’s baby mama was a freak-psycho and always threatened him to never see his daughter. well, she told him she slept with her ex boyfriend while they were together. My dad being the kind of person he is, called a DNA testing place and they told him to let them know when the baby was born. Sure enough about 30 minutes after the baby was born the person actually came to the hospital and swabbed the baby’s mouth, the freak-psycho’s mouth, and my brother’s mouth. they had the results about 3 days later. you can do it immediately after the baby is born. but only if the mother consents to the DNA testing. good luck.
tori [christian due 2.25.10] | Feb 03, 2010
funny thing is the same thing happened to me. but thank god she isnt after all..
ok well all i have to say is stand by his side no matter what. and you can do a DNA test alreadyy and if he is the father tell him to fight for custody cuz it seems that she is not entirely there by stating that she doesnt want anything from him, if she really didnt then she wouldnt call him at ALL.
you need to get the right answer and soon cuz if he isnt then you need to get HER out of your life.
Becky Marie | Feb 03, 2010
I don’t know what to say really in response to this except that it is horrible for all involved, especially that poor baby.
I also would just like to tell you that I admire you so much for sticking by him, and I hope everything works out for you guys.
One thing that I do know about DNA testing is that if the father is the father he pays, but if he isn’t she pays.
Kimberly! | Feb 03, 2010
Ok. I am going to try my hardest to not sound rude while answering his question. I am on the other end of a situation exactly like this. I am pregnant, and want nothing to do with my ex, and he also has a new shiny gf and could care less about me. First of all, labor can last for MUCH longer than 24 hours, especially if she’s going natural. Or she could’ve been in false labor which they stopped and she just hasn’t told you. Both of which are very common. Second of all, even though she’s acting crazy, and YOU think she’s weird, you don’t know her. I want NOTHING to do with my ex because he was mentally abusive, and always tore me down. Something no one believes because he’s such a "great" guy around everyone else. You might have a wonderful relationship with your bf, but he might have been completely different around his ex. Also it takes two to make a baby, so try to remember he has a part in this also. Also, don’t believe rumors. Any woman worth a crap is not going to lie about paternity. And the reason she told him, and wants nothing to do with him, is because he has a right to know. I keep my ex posted on important things via facebook, even though I do not want to talk to him. He is still the father. She’s hormonal, and going through a TON of different emotions right now. You need to assume this woman is being completely honest with you until she gives you a reason not to. Please try not to be judgmental. Especially if you’re planning on being with this man for any length of time. You are going to have to deal with her in the future, and possibly be this child’s step mother. Let him fight for custody, he should. But he should also do it for the right reasons not to spite her. You can take a paternity test now if you want to pay for it out of pocket. If not, you’ll have to wait for her to fill out all of the state paperwork, and wait until it goes through. Usually about a month. In which case he will be gone, so maybe you should do it now. I have so much more to say, but I’m having contractions, so I’m going to go. If you want more feedback you can e-mail me.
?Mandi Due in April with a boy!? | Feb 03, 2010
it sounds like shes pist hes in a relationship and she ridiculously jealous, as far as i know as soon as the baby’s born you can try to have a paternity test done and if the child is in fact his, which by the games shes trying to play might not be or is and she wants him back she cannot tell him he cannot see that child, its a little thing called fathers rights, which most guys who dont care weather or not they see their child dont look into. try not to let her stress you guys out to much about it i know its hard, but the more yous stress about it the more strain it will put on your relationship, trust me i know i hope for the best in whatever the outcome is. good luck
minenotyerz03 | Feb 03, 2010
I’m sorry for your whole situation and i want you to know you can in fact be in labor for 24hours or even over 24hours. Also, as soon as the baby is born you should be able to get a paternity test seeing as it’s just a blood test. I’d go like a county office or something of that sort and get it all straightened out. To me though she sounds like the kind of girl who is upset she let a good thing go and instead of just getting over it she wants to hurt the other person ie your boyfriend and being as she dated him she knows how to do that, but again like I said just go to your county office or something of the sort and get paper work set up and get a test done ASAP. The sooner you do it the better. In some cases it may be free depending on when you do it.
Anyway good luck hope everything gets sorted out.
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